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Lessons in Bravery from The Anatomy of Courage, Pt. 2 by Mark Hatmaker

 


[That Part 2 bit in the title tips that it is a good idea to read in conjunction with Part 1 which immediately precedes this offering. All quotes are from the masterful pictured volume.]

How is courage spent in war? Courage is will-power, whereof no man has an unlimited stock; and when in war it is used up, he is finished. A man’s courage is his capital and he is always spending. The call on the bank may be only the daily drain of the front line or it may be a sudden draft which threatens to close the account. His will is perhaps almost destroyed by intensive shelling, by heavy bombing, or by a bloody battle, or it is gradually used up by monotony, by exposure, by the loss of the support of stauncher spirits on whom he has come to depend, by physical exhaustion, by a wrong attitude to danger, to casualties, to war, to death itself.”

An imminently useful observation for we not in the trenches. Will Power/Courage are exhaustible resources—we do not possess an infinite supply; just as we need to build and foster muscular power via rest the same goes for the human resources of Will and Bravery.

Most of us are lucky enough not to experience sudden true stressors [bombshells, etc.] eating into our reserves, but…

How often do we succumb [that is, to submit, that is to be defeated] to the juvenile peevish habit of bewailing the First World Problems of everyday life, how often do we allow these to be relabeled as stressors?

How often do we allow the self-chosen repetitive routines of “Work, drive the same route home, thumb the phone, watch the telly, etc.” to become our form of trench monotony?

The sameness of WWI trench warfare life is applied by outside forces, adopting trench living in the midst of wealth is, well, ….

Lord Moran wisely advises to us to reduce exposure to stressors so we have an able supply of will and bravery when it is needed. One easy way to reduce stress, is to stop childishly labeling everyday life as stressful.

I ask, with all honesty, how is being in traffic in any way, shape or form comparable to the every present worry of a shell burst?

Calling both a stressor is an absurdity and an insult to intellect and brave men and women everywhere.

A man of character in peace is a man of courage in war.”

This point was belabored in Part 1, but it so valuable an observation and practice that it need be shouted daily.

We forge our courage by the daily small acts we engage in. No discipline or will for the small? Well, what does that spell for the large?

Lord Moran would look askance. I bet the experienced side in this wager.

There seemed to be four degrees of courage and four orders of men measured by that standard. Men who did not feel fear; men who felt fear but did not show it; men who felt fear and showed it but did their job; men who felt fear, showed it and shirked. At Ypres I was beginning to understand that few men spent their trench lives with their feet firmly planted on one rung of this ladder. They might have days without showing fear followed by days when their plight was plain to all the company. At other times they were possessed by the fear that they would be found wanting and branded as cowards, when in the toil and bloody sweat of trying to conquer themselves they would end by doing their job without a sign of fear. The story of modern war is concerned with the striving of men, eroded by fear, to maintain a precarious footing on the upper rungs of this ladder.”

Bingo and Bravo!

The Courageous are not men or women without fear; Courage is the everyday Man and Woman who feels that fear, feels it deeply and yet does what needs to be done in spite of that fear.

To perform well with no burden, is far less impressive than the burdened performing anything close to well.

We lift weights to improve our strength over time.

We engage in small daily “courage” to improve our character over time.

Just as there is no credible program of “21 Days to Big-Honkin’ Biceps” there is no “Read These Quotes and You’ll Be Magically Courageous Without Doing Anything!”

[Brace yourself for the next one…]

Men suffered more in the last war, as it seems to me, not because it was more terrible but because they were more sensitive. It was not that the horror of battle had been raised to a pitch no longer tolerable, but that their resistance to fear had been lowered. Some subtle change in men’s nature which was not the effect of the war, but of the conditions of life before the war, had taken place, that left them unprotected, the sport of battles.”

Lord Moran describes a populace “softened” pre-battle conditions leading to increased suffering under stress and, perhaps, reductions in instances of personal bravery.

His observations come from World Wars I and II.

If we consider the men and women who “wallowed in excess” pre-war in that less luxury rich time as soft, how much more so might we 21st century pampered gods be softened by our own pre-large-stress ways.

This is not to lament in the usual manner of, “These kids today” such blather is less than useful to the individual.

Toughening the “Society” hardening the “Culture” is liberty-restricting and in no way a guarantee of toughening and hardening the individual.

Cultures are not hard, individuals choose to be hardened via their own action or participation in an adopted culture of hardening. Period.

Lamenting abstract nouns/categories is a cognitive “Escape Self-Responsibility” card.

Lord Moran’s observation is there to inform our own lives, habits and practices.

It asks us to examine the self and see what “rigors” [occasional and regular] we are willing to partake of to better prepare the ineffable Will and Self for Courage.

[In Part 3 we will continue to delve into this imminently useful work and begin to move into tangible tactics to train for courage.]

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