Let’s set the stage… “ As a general statement, I don't like Yankees, I'm as polite as I can be, but I don't like their behavior. I've had occasions to tell some Yankees that they wouldn't stay alive two days in the counties I come from, acting the way they act, talking the way they talk, shoving people out of the way. You can't do that .”-Harry Crews As a Bonafide Southern Man who has been privileged to travel the world a bit, I find truth in Mr. Crew words. Me? I like “Yankees” hell I like most people but the behavior he mentions…we’ll come back to that. And it isn’t just a Southern Man thing… “ What Southern women are is loyal, very sexy, polite to a fault, and when necessary, razor-sharp with their wit. And most importantly, a Southern woman (when pushed) will-- in every possible meaning of the phrase—“Kick your ass!”— Branford Marsalis These dual characteristics of Charm and Harm seem to linger in all those I have known who come from true south
[All excerpts are taken from The Oregon Trail: Sketches of Prairie and Rocky-Mountain Life by Francis Parkman the observations were penned by a 23-year-old Parkman as he was to embark on a 2-month journey into the Great West.] This volume is a frontier Rough n Tumble classic that hints at many aspects of how life lived Wild is different from the domesticated. It offers many a lesson on how living closer to the bone of necessity can inform us for own venturesome treks or, at the vey least, provide some palliative perspective even if we decide never to set a foot into the unknown. “Meanwhile we erected our own tent not far off, and after supper a council was held, in which it was resolved to remain one day at Fort Leavenworth, and on the next to bid a final adieu to the frontier: or in the phraseology of the region, to "jump off." Our deliberations were conducted by the ruddy light from a distant swell of the prairie, where the long dry grass of last summer was on fire