“ On suddenly catching sight of [the] beloved, the heart of the lover begins to palpate .”--Book II of De Arte Honesti Amandi [On the Art of Honest Loving] by Andreas Capellanus Rule 12 from this 12 th -century manual on courtly love from the Golden Age of Chivalry echoes what was, is, and will always be known—the human eye [male and female, alike] “ enjoys a comely appearance .” There is zero disparity in the sexes when it comes to enjoying eye-appeal but…there is a marked difference in aspects/attributes that “make the grade” for each sex. That is, what might be high on the list for Gents, might be mighty low on the list for Ladies and vice versa. An understanding of these differences can lead to better understanding, better profile pics on dating apps, targeted motivation in the conditioning department to attract or retain love. At the very least, it can go a long way to correct gross misunderstandings based on assumptions. Example : The male of the species enjoys...
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